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Years ago, I had a falling out with a friend due to a misunderstanding that was completely my fault. I was afraid to admit that I was wrong, so we didn’t speak for years. Then we bumped into each other and decided to meet for lunch. It was so pleasant that we kept meeting. After two or three meals together, I pushed myself to apologize for my fault years earlier.

My experience isn’t unique: Many people avoid apologizing because the idea of admitting to wrongdoing makes them terribly uncomfortable. “We all like to view ourselves as good people- as kind, considerate and moral,” says Ryan Fehr, a professor at the University of Washington’s Foster School of Business.

“Apologies force us to admit to ourselves that we don’t always live up to our own standards. We might also fear that the victim (受害者)won’t accept our apology, further compromising (作出让步;违背)our positive sense of self. For these reasons, an apology can be very difficult to give.”

For many, apologizing is stressful, awkward and uncomfortable. Research shows that it can improve your mental health, repair damaged relationships and increase self-respect.

“Apology acts as a signal of one’s moral character,” Fehr says. “It represents a separation of the offender(冒犯者)from the offense. The offender is saying: “ I recognize that what I did was hurtful, but that offense does not represent me as a person. ”Even if you speak your words not fluently, they will mean a lot. Victims usually do appreciate an apology. ” Fehr says.

I know this first-hand: My friend and I had lunch recently, 15 years after my belated (迟来 的)apology. Admitting that everything had been my fault helped. We’re both appreciative to have our friendship today.

1.What is the purpose of paragraph 1?

A.To tell us the background. B.To present the topic.

C.To describe the misunderstanding. D.To provide some guidance.

2.What makes it hard to make an apology?

A.Lack of chances. B.Shortage of money.

C.Regret and shame. D.Fear and awkwardness.

3.What does the underlined word “they” refer to in paragraph 5?

A.Offenders. B.Victims.

C.Words of an apology. D.Replies to an apology.

4.What does Ryan Fehr think about making an apology?

A.It will give both sides some relief.

B.It means giving up our self-respect.

C.It will make people value friendship.

D.It is no use forcing people to make an apology.

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