LIFE is AWKWARD. What should you do when your...

Some people think only school children do not agree with their parents, however, it is not true. Communication is a problem for parents and children of all ages. If it's hard for you to communicate with your parents, don't worry about it. Here are some advice for you to deal with communication problem with your parents.

Don't argue with your parents. Don't approach(靠近) your parents when you are angry. Your parents probably won't consider your ideas if you are shouting at them. And you can't express yourself well if you are angry. Go someplace to cool off. Make sure you understand why you are unhappy. Then think about what you want to say to your parents. If you don't think you can speak to them at the moment, try writing a letter.

Try to reach a compromise (和解). Perhaps you and your parents disagree on something. You can keep your disagreement and try your best to do something to make each other understood. Here is a good example. Michael's mother didn't agree with him about buying a motorcycle. They argued about it. Michael expressed his ideas patiently and they finally came to a compromise. Michael bought the motorcycle, but only drove it on certain days.

Of course, your parents might refuse something. In these situations, it is especially important to show love and respect to them. Showing respect will keep your relationship strong.

Talk about your opinions. The opinions of your parents are probably different from those of your own. Tell your parents what you care about, and why. Understanding your thoughts might help them see your purposes in life.

A good relationship with your parents can make you a better and happier person. It is worth having a try!

1.完成句子

You don't need to ________________ it when you have trouble talking with your parents.

2.完成句子

You can try ________________ when you cannot speak to them at the moment.

3.简略回答问题

What should you do if your parents refuse you?

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4.找出并写下全文的主题句

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5.将文中画线句子翻译成汉语

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九年级英语多任务混合问题困难题查看答案及解析

—Don’t __________ when your parents ask you to do something. You should know what they say is good for you.

— Thank you for your advice. I’ll follow it.

A. talk back　　　　 B. give up

C. hurry up　　 　　 D. call back

九年级英语单项填空中等难度题查看答案及解析

LIFE is AWKWARD. What should you do when your parents are embarrassing (使尴尬) you in front of your friends? Or what if you see what looks like a classmate stealing someone else’s headphones? In our social Q’s column (专栏), the teenager Harper Ediger and the adult Philip Glances give their best advice to kids looking for help navigating real-life situations. Now it’s your turn: Do you have a question about an uncomfortable social situation at school, at home, on social media or among friends? Email it to us at Kjdsqs@njpost. com and Harper and Philip may answer it in a future issue. Please include your age and hometown. C’mon, we know you have one.

To inspire (激励) you, here are reader-submitted questions we’ve published in previous issues:

My mom signs me up for camps and activities without asking what I want to do. I only learn what I’m doing at the last minute. I don’t like that it’s a surprise, and I feel that I should be able to help plan my time. How can I have more of a say?

At my school, fourth graders need to learn different dances, then dress up for a fancy party where we ask partners to dance with us. This makes me nervous, and I’m not looking forward to it. How should I handle this situation?

My sister is home for college break, and lucky me, she’s my roommate. As I’m 12 and she’s almost 19, we both want our own space. I know she doesn’t mean it personally, but she always complains that she doesn’t have a home, which makes me feel as if I’m intruding in my own room. Do I tell her how I feel or let it go?

1.What should be included in your email to the social Q’s column?

A.Name, age and social media. B.Age, school and hometown.

C.Age, hometown and questions. D.Name, school and questions.

2.The underlined word “say” in the passage means ________.

A.the ability to plan time B.the chance to set up camps

C.the right to make decisions D.the plan to enjoy activities

3.The writer uses some published reader-submitted questions in order to ________.

A.show kids ways of solving problems B.give kids examples of what to write about

C.share Harper and Philip’s advice with kids D.offer kids a chance to complain about their lives

4.The social Q’s column is designed to ________.

A.help kids deal with their troubles B.train kids to write

C.have kids introduce themselves D.advise kids to behave well

九年级英语阅读单选中等难度题查看答案及解析

Anger（愤怒）often makes us uncomfortable. Seeing your child's anger can be especially uncomfortable. In order to relieve（缓解）this feeling, parents often encourage children to “stop crying” and say things like “It's nothing to cry about.” It's moments like those that plant the seeds of unhealthy anger, The “stop crying” parents are just doing what they were taught by their own parents, who were probably taught that by their parents on and on. However, we should learn how to create healthy anger in our kids.

If a child never sees his or her parents express anger, he or she should never express anger, either. But if parents always express their anger loudly, their child may start to think of anger as something that is always frightening.

The first thing you can do to create healthy anger in your children is to practice creating healthy anger in yourself. Once you're better at experiencing anger and expressing it in a healthy way, you'll be able to set a good example for your kids.

Stopping kids from expressing their feelings is wrong. You may feel bad when you believe you are wrong, When children express their feelings and are told that it's nothing to cry about, they come to know that they themselves are bad.

We need to raise them in an environment where it's safe to express feelings. Once you feel more comfortable with your own anger, you can teach your children why anger is a helpful feeling. When your kids express anger, help them examine what it is that has made them angry. Why did it make them angry? How did it do that? Then, you can teach them that those feelings are never wrong and our expressions of feelings are in our control.

Anger is natural and normal, and it can be experienced and expressed in a healthy way.

1.Why do parents say “It's nothing to cry about” to their children?

A.To encourage them to stop crying. B.To make them uncomfortable.

C.To relieve their anger. D.To plant the seeds of unhealthy anger.

2.From the second paragraph we can infer（推断）___________.

A.parents have a great influence on their children B.parents should get angry with their children

C.expressing anger loudly is right, not wrong D.children should express their anger like their parents

3.Parents should set a good example for children by ___________.

A.stopping them from expressing their anger B.expressing their own anger in a healthy way

C.letting them know they are right or wrong D.raising them in a safe environment

4.The writer thinks that anger is a kind of feeling that is always ___________.

A.wrong B.uncomfortable C.harmful D.helpful

5.What's the main idea of the passage?

A.Anger often makes us and our children uncomfortable. B.Parents should create healthy anger in themselves.

C.Parents should create healthy anger in their kids. D.Parents should never express their anger.

九年级英语阅读单选中等难度题查看答案及解析

How do you feel when your parents are not at home with you? Here is what Daniel and Laura said.

Daniel：

Well, I’ve had the experience of having to take care of my younger brother by myself. Sometimes it’s scary, but there are a lot of things making being at home alone fun. My favorite thing to do is to watch television. It is like having another person to talk to. And if my brother and I are arguing, we make a deal (达成协议). We play his game first, then he has to play mine, and both of us get what we want. When I get a little scared, I just remember that there is always someone to call on the phone. I can call my parents and I have my next door neighbors, too.

Laura：

When I started staying at home alone, I found that keeping the television or the radio on helped to make me feel easy. I also always had the phone numbers of my parents and the neighbors. When babysitting my younger brothers, I would play games with them, and leave more lights on than usual. I would also keep the phone number of the hospital nearby.

根据所给材料选择最佳选项。

1. The two kids are talking about their experiences of_________.

A. getting along with others

B. staying at home without their parents

C. studying by themselves

D. looking after younger brothers or sisters

2. What does Daniel think of his experience?

A. Awful.　　 B. Great.　 C. Funny.　　 D. Scary but fun.

3. How does Daniel often deal with his fear?

A. He does what he likes to do.

B. He fights with his brother.

C. He eats a lot of food.

D. He talks with his neighbors.

4.What does Laura do when she is alone at home?

A. She asks her friend to come.

B. She waits outside the door.

C. She turns on the radio.

D. She finds another person to talk to.

5. Daniel and Laura both agree that it’s necessary to_________ when they’re alone at home.

A. have the phone numbers of their parents

B. stay with a brother or sister

C. watch TV or listen to the radio

D. make sure that the house is clean

九年级英语阅读单选中等难度题查看答案及解析

How do you feel when your parents are not at home with you? Here is what Daniel and Laura said.

阅读以上信息，根据其内容判断下列各小题的正误。正确的填A，错误的填B。

1.The kids are talking about their experiences of staying at home without their parents.

2.Daniel thinks his experience is awful.

3.When watching younger brothers, Laura won’t play games with them.

4.Both Daniel and Laura agree it’s necessary to stay with a brother or sister when they’re alone at home.

5.Daniel’s favorite thing to do is to watch television.

九年级英语阅读判断简单题查看答案及解析

All children 1.(grow) up one day. That is the way it has always 2.(be). You, too, are growing up. Even as you attend your daily classes, you are growing up. You should have fun as you are gowing up. But you must not forget that you have 3.(responsibility).

You might not know exactly 4. you want to be when you grow up. And that’s OK. You should try to find out 5. much as you can about future job opportunities. Discover what you’d like to do when you grow up.

Do you know anyone who could give you some good 6.(advise). What about your teachers? How about your parents, your uncles 7. your aunts? If you’d like to become a doctor, why 8. you meet with a doctor and discuss what it takes to become one? You’re only in junior high school, but years go by 9.(quick). It’s good to be 10. for the future.

九年级英语语法填空中等难度题查看答案及解析

Our parents are important people in our life. They are our first teachers in our life. They love us and help us all the time. But do you want to get on well with them? Here are some ways to help you to be happy with your parents.

Have fun together

How much time do you spend just enjoying being with each other? Ask your parents to play with you. Go outside together, try some sports, or go to the movies.

Be Kind

Little things may bring a lot to your parents. Make a meal for them by yourself and that can make your parents happy.

Ask for help

When you are in trouble or meet some sad things, you can ask your parents for help and advice. They will be happy to listen to you and help you.

Have a try

You don’t have to be the best but you need to have a try. They will be happy to see you have the courage to achieve your dream. It lets them know they’re doing a good job in helping you grow up.

1.Why are our parents important persons for us?

A.They teach us first in class. B.They love us sometimes.

C.They always give us a hand. D.They are happy all the time.

2.How many suggestions does the writer give us in the text?

A.Three. B.Four. C.Five. D.Six.

3.How do you have fun with your parents?

A.Read a book together. B.Help with housework.

C.Tell them funny things. D.Go outside together.

4.What should you do if you have a problem?

A.Listen to your teachers. B.Ask your parents for help.

C.Turn to your friends around. D.Try to be the best of yourself.

5.The best title for this ad is __________.

A.How to Love and Teach Kids B.How to Talk with Your Parents

C.How to Keep Happy with Your Parents D.How to Try to Be the Best of Yourself

九年级英语阅读单选中等难度题查看答案及解析

As you grow up, you need to explore the world in new ways, while your parents need to protect you from the dangers in the world. Different ideas might lead to fights in families. Do you know how to make your home a happy and healthy place? Try the following.

Respect

Respect is more than just doing what you are told to do. Respect is about valuing（重视） what your parents have to say. It is also about them valuing what you have to say.

Mark, 14, puts it this way, “At least try to understand whatever they are trying to tell you, no matter how bad it may sound at the time.”

Communication

You can communicate with your parents by expressing your thoughts in a respectful way. Your ability to explain your thoughts calmly may give your parents a chance to see you in a new light.

Trust

You are more likely to get along with your parents and have more freedom if your parents trust you.

Taking time together

Some teenagers find that doing fun activities with their parents can improve their relationships. Sharing time together can build trust and communication. Sometimes we forget that parents are more than rule-makers — they’re interesting people who like to watch movies, play cards, and go shopping— just like us!

Your relationship with your parents may be sometimes good and sometimes bad. But remember that parents can be a great support when things are not going well. So try your best to improve the relationship between you and your parents. If your parents see that you try your best, they will do the same.

1.What is passage mainly about?（不超过15个词）

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2.How should you communicate with your parents?（不超过10个词）

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3.What does the underlined part “do the same” mean？（不超过15个词）

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九年级英语回答问题困难题查看答案及解析

Why is setting goals(目标) important? Because goals can help you do and experience everything you want in life. Instead of just letting life happen to you, goals allow you to make your life happen.

Successful people in life imagine how their life should be and set lots of goals. 1. It’s like having a sign to show you where you want to go. Think of it in this way. There are two drivers, one has a place to go to clearly in mind which can be found on a map. He can drive straight there surely without any wasted time.

The other driver has no goal, or a map. 2. But he drives aimlessly around, never getting anywhere. Just using up oil. Which driver do you want to be?

3. They decide what they want in life and then get there by setting goals and making plans. Unsuccessful people usually just let life happen by accident. Goals aren’t difficult to set and they aren’t difficult to reach. 4. You are the person who must decide what to achieve and in what direction to aim your life.

Research, tells us that when we write a goal down we are more likely to achieve it.

5. They are harder to forget. Also when you write your goals in your own way, you are able to make yourself realize situations that will bring you nearer to your goal.

根据短文内容，从下列选项中选出能填入空白处的最佳选项。选项中有一项为多余选项。

A. He starts off at the same time from the same place.

B. By setting goals you can take control of your life.

C. It’s up to you to find out what your goals really are.

D. Written goals can be reviewed usually.

E. Winners in life set goals and follow through with them.

F. Stressful men don’t set goals in their life.

九年级英语补全短文6选5困难题查看答案及解析