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Why are so many people afraid of failure? Quite simply because no one tells us how to fail so that failure becomes an experience that will lead to growth. 1.

Most parents work hard at either preventing failure or protecting their children from the knowledge that they have failed. One way is to lower standards. A mother describes her child's hastily made table as "Perfect!" in spite of its uneven legs. Another way is to pin the blame on someone else. If John fails science, his teacher is unfair or stupid.

The trouble with failure-prevention ways is that they leave a child unequipped for life in the real world. The young need to learn that no one can be best at everything, no one can win all the time—and that it's possible to enjoy a game even when you don't win. A child who is not invited to a birthday party, who does not make the honor roll on the baseball team, feels terrible, of course. 2. The young should be allowed to experience disappointment, and be helped to master it.

Failure is never pleasurable. It hurts adults and children alike. 3. Step one is to ask "Why did I fail?" Resist the natural impulse (冲动) to blame someone else. Ask yourself what you did wrong and how you can improve. If someone else can help, don't be shy about inquiring.

Success, which encourages repetition of old behavior, is not nearly as good a teacher as failure. You can learn from a disastrous party how to give a good one, from an ill-chosen first house what to look for in a second. 4. After 12 years of studying ballet a friend of mine went to an interview for a professional company. She was turned down. "Would further training help?" she asked. The ballet master shook his head. "You will never be a dancer. You haven't the body for it."

In such cases, the way to use failure is to take stock (清点存货,清理) bravely asking "What have I left? What else can I do?" My friend put away her toe shoes and moved into dance therapy, a field where she's both competent and useful. 5. Often there is a resurgence (复活) of energy--an awareness of new possibilities.

A. Even a failure that seems definite can promote fresh thinking, a change of direction.

B. However, it can make a positive contribution to your life once you learn to use it.

C. You can also learn that failure is the mother of success.

D. And we forget that failure is part of the human condition and that every person has the right to fail.

E. Failure frees one to take risks because there's little to lose.

F. So be strong and never lose heart in the face of failure.

G. But parents should not offer a quick comfort, prize or say, "It doesn't matter" because it does.

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