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“In life, we're often torn between the person we want to be and the person we ought to be. Yet, while many hesitate to take the risks associated with becoming their ideal selves”, a new study notes that people unavoidably regret not pursuing their passion.

Inspired by research published in the 1990s, psychologist Thomas Gilovich along with his colleague Shai Davidai built upon his original study, which proved that regrets often evolve from what people haven't done. According to the new research, our most enduring regrets grow from not living up to our ideal selves, as opposed to not living according to our “ought selves” (the people we should have been based on our duties and responsibilities).

Researchers began by explaining the difference between regrets concerning the “ideal self” and the “ought self”, before asking participants to list, name, and categorize their regrets. Across the six different studies conducted, participants said they experienced regrets concerning their ideal selves more often. They also mentioned more ideal-self regrets than ought-self regrets when asked to list their regrets in life. When asked to name their single biggest regret in life, participants were also more likely to mention a regret about not fulfilling their ideal selves than their ought selves.

However, Gilovich and Davidai still recommend that people move on with caution, as the best way to live depends on how much weight you attach to your ought self vs. your ideal self. “If you place a premium on your ought self, you would be wise to minimize (your) regrets by thinking twice before moving forward (and seizing the moment). ” they suggest. “However, if one is an adventurous soul guided by her ideal self, she might indeed end up happier by seizing the day and not looking back. ”

Despite this research, however, knowing what you want and pursuing that passion are two different things. Mark Twain's words may give you the courage to go for your goals:

Twenty years from now you will be more disappointed by the things you didn't do than by the ones you did. So throw off the bowlines (帆脚索), sail away from the safe harbor, catch the trade winds in your sails. Explore. Dream. Discover.

1.How did the researchers get their new findings?

A.By analyzing their six previous studies.

B.By asking people to explain what regret is.

C.By looking into the content of people's regrets.

D.By comparing people's regrettable and fulfilling experiences.

2.What can we know about the “ideal self” and the “ought self” according to the researchers?

A.They are equally important aspects in people's lives.

B.It's very difficult for people to choose between them.

C.The choice between them can affect people's lifestyles.

D.People may choose one and change to the other in life.

3.What does the underlined part “place a premium on” in Para. 4 mean?

A.Value. B.Know.

C.Ignore. D.Refuse.

4.What may the author advise us to do?

A.Never regret anything in life.

B.Look back now and then in life.

C.Be patient when going for our goals.

D.Do what we want to without hesitation.

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